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How to Improve Your Relationship with the Quran

It is recommended for every believing man and woman to recite the Book of Allah, the Quran, often, with due contemplation and understanding. This may be done by using a copy of the Quran or from one’s memory. Allah – the Most High – says

كِتَابٌ أَنزَلْنَاهُ إِلَيْكَ مُبَارَكٌ لِّيَدَّبَّرُوا
آيَاتِهِ وَلِيَتَذَكَّرَ أُولُو الْأَلْبَابِ

“[This is] a blessed Book (the Quran) which We have revealed to you, [O Muhammad ﷺ], that they might reflect upon its ayah and that those of understanding would be reminded.” [Quran 38:29]

Are you one of those people who rarely touch the Quran? Or do you read it daily, but don’t find it is having the impact on you that it should? Whatever the case may be, these are some simple tips that can help you connect with the Quran.

1. Before You touch it, check Your Heart

The key to really benefiting from the Quran is to check your heart first, before you even touch Allah’s Book. Ask yourself, honestly, why you are reading it. Is it to just get some information and to let it drift away from you later? Remember that the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was described by his wife   ‘Aa’ishah radhiAllahu ‘anha as a “walking Quran” in other words, he didn’t just read and recite the Quran, he lived it.

2. Before You touch it, do Your Wudhoo’ (Ablution)

Doing your Wudhoo’ is good physical and mental preparation to remind you that you are not reading just another book. You are about to interact with Allah, the Most Exalted, so being clean should be a priority when communicating with Him.

3. Start with reading Only Five Minutes Every Day

Too often, we think that we should read the Quran for at least one whole hour. If you are not in the habit of reading regularly, this is too much. Start off with just five minutes daily. If you took care of step one, In sha Allah (Allah willing), you will notice that those five minutes will become ten, then half an hour, then an hour, and maybe even more!

4. Make sure that You understand what You have read

Five minutes of reading the Quran in Arabic is good, but you need to understand what you are reading. If you are not Arabic, or you don’t understand the Arabic language, then make sure you have a good translation of the Quran in the language you understand best. Always try to read the translation of what you have read that day.

Regarding those who neglect the Quran by not reading or not understanding it, Allah Almighty says:

وَقَالَ الرَّسُولُ يَا رَبِّ إِنَّ قَوْمِي اتَّخَذُوا هَٰذَا الْقُرْآنَ مَهْجُورًا

“And the Messenger has said, “O my Lord, indeed my people have taken this Quran as [a thing] abandoned.” [Quran: 25: 30]

Allah Almighty informs us about His Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ﷺ that he said, “My Lord my people have abandoned – acting or listening – to the Quran” and that is because the idol-worshippers did not pay attention nor listen to the Quran, as Allah says (what means): “And those who disbelieve say: “Do not listen to this Quran and speak noisily during [the recitation of] it that perhaps you will overcome.” [Quran 41:26]

5. Remember that the Quran is Far more Interactive than a CD

In an age of “interactive” CD-ROMs and computer programs, a number of people think books are passive and boring. But the Quran is not like that. Remember that when you read the Quran, you are interacting with Almighty Allaah. He Almighty is talking to you, so pay attention.

6. Do not just read, You have to Listen too

There are now many audio cassettes and CDs of the Quran, a number of them with translations as well. This is great to put on your walkman or your car’s CD or stereo as you drive to and from work. Use this in addition to your daily Quran reading, not as a replacement for it.

7. Make Du’aa’ (Supplication)

Ask Allah, the Most Exalted, to guide you when you read the Quran. Your aim is to sincerely, for the love of Allah, interact with Him by reading, understanding and applying His blessed words. Making Du’aa’ to Allah for help and guidance will be your best tool for doing this.When you are making du’aa’, you have a direct connection with Allah Almighty. So when you are saying your du’aa’, you shouldn’t be distracted, but instead you should be fully concentrated. The Prophet ﷺ said:

When you are making du’aa’, you have a direct connection with Allah Almighty. So when you are saying your du’aa’, you shouldn’t be distracted, but instead you should be fully concentrated. The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Make Du’aa’ and be assured of it being answered, and know that Allah, the Exalted, does not answer a Du’aa’ from a careless heart which is not concentrating.” [At-Tirmithi]

[Read: Why Doesn’t Allah Answer Our Du’as? and Etiquette of Making Du’a]

Originally published here.

4 thoughts on “How to Improve Your Relationship with the Quran

    1. Assalamoalikum warehmatulhe wabarakatoho. These all points for making a goofd relationship with Qur’an are really very beneficial and i like to include some,more too…
      1): Make sure you dont have any thing HARAM in life like backbiting and lies.
      2): Try to read and listen to an ayah again and again may be that that moment your conscious mind does not find any logic in thr ayah but you will really shocked when after 3 4 days your unconscious mind gives you its meaning although you hadforget about it.
      3)Some times give sadqa to understand it.
      4):give respect this book so that respect will comes your way. Try not to put in your floor use cousins, not hold it like other books,and move it freely but hold it with respect near your heart or chest.
      5) Try to give it your best time when you are active and fresh.
      6): Try to listen to those recitations which have ups and downs in pitch of the sound of the qari so your don’t feel sleepy.
      7):Try to make yourself closer to the peoples who use to have a better realtionship with this Quran so that they remind of you.
      Jazaki’Allah khairan kaseeran :)

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